Das Buch der Riten

Wikijunior: 太阳系/火星 Sonnensystem/Mars

the marco polo project: “自信”是一 morbide 心理

这两年 immer mehr entdeckte, dass von 很多人 immer wieder gesagt 的“自信”是一 ZEW 多少有些 morbid 的心理，这 Art morbider 心理 hat 自我 täuschen 和自我-Hypnose 的作用。

Morbide 心理能让人 haben morbid 的 Kraft，这 Kraft 能让人 haben 一 ZEW 觉得自己 werden immer mehr 强大的 Illusion，aber mehr 有可能让人 werden 外强中干，werden 没有内心，没有感情。Zum Beispiel 有些人喜欢对 dem Spiegel zu stehen und zu rufen：“你是 der Beste！” trägt den ganzen 天 im Gesicht ein 很 professionell 的自信笑容，甚至在家人和朋友面前也是如此，这其实是一 ZEW 很 erschreckend 的 Entfremdung。

另外很多时候，“自信”也是一些人用来 täuschen 他人的 Methode。谁是这个世界上看上去最自信的人？我想到了这 Art 两 Arten von 人， Sekten-教主和 Schneeballsystem-讲师。

在杨 Dechang 的电影《麻 Jiang》里有这 Art 一 ZEW 台词：“这个世界上没有一个人知道自己要的是什么。每个人都在 warten auf 别人 sagen 他该怎么做，他就 folgt 怎么做。你只要很有信心地 sagen 他们，他们要的是什么，他们会 dankbar sein 你。”这 ZEW 话完美 gezeigt “自信”的 täuschende Natur。

...

Douban

Ding Xiaoyun

Übersetzung

‘Self-confidence’ is a kind of morbid psychology

Over the last couple of years I have become increasingly convinced that this much talked about “self confidence” is in some ways similar to a kind of mental disorder; a disorder that can have both a self hypnotising and self deluding effect on the individual.

This psychological disorder gives people a perverse sort of power that results in the delusion that they are becoming stronger and stronger, when in actual fact they are more likely to be merely building an external facade of strength while remaining internally weak, lacking in a real inner life, and emotionless. Take for example people who shout to themselves in front of the mirror “I am the greatest”, then put on a professional smile of self confidence all day, and even in some cases maintain this charade in front of family and friends. In reality, this is nothing more than a horrifying form of alienation.

In many other circumstances, “self confidence” is another means used by people to cheat others. Who are some of the most self confident looking people in the world? There are two kinds that come to my mind: cult leaders and pyramid scheme marketers.

The film ‘Ma-jiang’ by Edward Yang has this to say on the topic: “Nobody really knows what they want. Everybody is just waiting for somebody to tell them what to do, and then follow that. All you need to do is with complete confidence tell them what it is they want, and they’ll thank you for it.”

...

Julien Leyre website