Use: sock.shutdown (socket.SHUT_RD)
Then accept will return EINVAL. No ugly cross thread signals required!
From the Python documentation:
"Note close() releases the resource associated with a connection but does not necessarily close the connection immediately. If you want to close the connection in a timely fashion, call shutdown() before close()."
http://docs.python.org/3/library/socket.html#socket.socket.close
I ran into this problem years ago, while programming in C. But I only found the solution today, after running into the same problem in Python, AND pondering using signals (yuck!), AND THEN remembering the note about shutdown!
As for the comments that say you should not close/use sockets across threads... in CPython the global interpreter lock should protect you (assuming you are using file objects rather than raw, integer file descriptors).
Here is example code:
import socket, threading, time
sock = socket.socket (socket.AF_INET, socket.SOCK_STREAM)
sock.setsockopt (socket.SOL_SOCKET, socket.SO_REUSEADDR, 1)
sock.bind (('', 8000))
sock.listen (5)
def child ():
print ('child accept ...')
try: sock.accept ()
except OSError as exc : print ('child exception %s' % exc)
print ('child exit')
threading.Thread ( target = child ).start ()
time.sleep (1)
print ('main shutdown')
sock.shutdown (socket.SHUT_RD)
time.sleep (1)
print ('main close')
sock.close ()
time.sleep (1)
print ('main exit')